Many of you have been in that insecure situation when you start to feel really uneasy about kissing. Doubting thoughts flow through your head and various questions start coming up and you may start to ask yourself “am I a good kisser?” unfortunately you can only find that answer out from your partner, however all is not lost there is an easy way that anyone and everyone can do to increase their skills of being a better kisser. There are two main points that you need to remember, which are as equally as important if you want to encourage your partner to be more responsive.
Being aware of your partner
If you want your relationship to develop, then it is really necessary that you and your partner are ready for this next step. Of course it helps if you actually get down to the act itself – kissing! Of course there are never ending doubts entering your head like who starts first? When does it change from a kiss into a tongue kiss? Do I touch or stroke my partner during the kiss? And where? Do I shut my eyes, and not to mention the thoughts about your partner!
If you are a person who is pushing forward and going for the french kiss each time you kiss your partner, then back down next time let your partner make the first move. Being more passive may surprise your partner and lead to new experiences.Take time and observe how the kiss develops, passion has many meanings.Keeping your eyes shut during a kiss might be considered as a clich, however it happens to help you focus on the kiss. If you observe and make sure you are in tune with your partner, it will be good grounding for being on your way to next step. Also another thing that helps indicate what your partner wants is their breathing, of course syncronizing with their breathing can helps create more contact.
Being irresistible and attractive for your partner
Many people think that making yourself irresistible is more a trait that a woman should have, but actually this is only a stereotype. Most people know the deep down feeling of needing their partner’s touch more than anything, and being able to create this feeling in others will be a great advantage when you want to have meaningful encounter. Be in syncronisity with your partner, and when they move away, do the same dont cling to them like a clam.This sort of action of moving away creates more excitement, which is an important point when being more flirtatious. When you and your partner are heavily kissing, try not to move on to the next stage before they do. Get them to lead from one type of kiss to another. They are doing all active moves and you are in a more passive role, ( this is particularly difficult if you are a man) this can create a totally different experience for the both of you. Don’t forget this creates spice in your relationship!
By being aware of your partners needs and by being a bit different in your style, you can change your question from am I a good kisser to why didn’t I do this before?