Reading this will help use body language to your advantage.
Communication is seen in many different ways. Facial expressions and body language can say more than what any sentence is capable of. Because of this, people believe that they can read into a situation by watching the interaction. However, very few people utilize this talent for their own benefit, until now.
Before getting physical, the first step is establishing eye contact. The fact is, if you can’t look at someone in the eyes, then that can easily be interpreted as not being interested. It’s relatively simple, especially in a large, crowded room. Once you’re caught his gaze a few times, give a warm smile. The wonderful thing about smiles is that they are contagious. They give a relaxed and intimate feeling, even from across the room. Giving a smile can entice him into anticipating for more.
At this point, the main focus is on making him feel relaxed and at ease. If there are any nervous ticks or fidgets, try to do your best to keep them under control. Unfortunately, small movements can be distracting and will easily affect the mood.
Also, intend on keeping your body facing forward and open to show acceptance. In other words, never cross your arms and legs while facing him. These can really make you hard to approach and partially secluded. It’s not an inviting atmosphere and you want to maintain the welcoming ambience.
Posture is another way of emitting positive impression. Prevent slouching as it shows lack of interest. Lean forward a little bit during conversations to portray the act of listening intently. Slightly tilting your head, licking your lips, and pushing your chest forward will also help with temptation. Remember, you do not want to be excessive with all of these actions as that can create a misunderstanding.
Lastly, smoking cigarettes or become extremely intoxicated can be a quick turn-off, so be sure to avoid doing things like this. In fact, you want to do the opposite. Smelling fresh will keep his focus while being actively involved in the moment. Just don’t forget to pay attention to his body movements. Watching to see if he mimics your style will determine whether your attempts will continue.
The number one rule with body language is that if it isn’t recognized and reciprocated, then it’s time to stop. You don’t want to seem desperate or needy, so being aware of what his body is saying is just as important as yours.