Good kissing is a skill and with this skill you are able to influence the future of your relationship. Kissing has been the cause of many conflicts and throughout history men have even killed for a kiss from their desired one. The influence of a kiss is often understated especially as it is nowadays considered to be such an ordinary act. People tend not to question their everyday habits. If you want to influence your partner then it is essential to start thinking about these following points:
- How you begin your kiss.
- How you react to being kissed.
- How you follow up the kiss.
The initial kiss creates the whole mood for the rest of the session, whatever that may be. Too wishy washy can cause the whole thing to go wrong and too forceful and active can also break the whole thing up.
Begin the kiss in a gentle but assertive manner – pull back when you feel your partner has had enough. Tip your head to oneside and kiss again, of course try to extend the kiss every time. Vary your kissing a bit – inform yourself how to kiss in different ways. One major tip is to go along with your partner what they do you is obviously something they would like otherwise they probably wouldn´t do it. Once you have come in contact and you have got to know each other´s kissing preferences then is the time to experiment but not before.
Your reaction to the kisses you receive is the make or break of the whole session. If you react cooly then the person will think you are not interested and feel insecure. If you react too passionately they might think that you want more and feel under pressure. If you want to have this encounter again then make your partner feel relaxed and easy. Your first consideration must be “how does my partner feel” , make sure you stay in tune with their body language. Their body language tells you more than words. Normally, nearly every sexual encounter starts with a kiss, increasing the good feelings in your partner by learning how to be a good kisser will increase your chances of taking the whole thing just a bit further.
Why is Kissing So Universal to Human Beings?
People kiss because it makes them feel good and wanted. When we kiss we will be able to evaluate how good a kisser our partner is. While kissing the physical closeness will allow one to know the smell and taste of their partner subconsciously.
When we kiss the saliva which contains hormones will pass through your partner and provide him or her with the information in the subconscious level. It is also known fact that women get attracted more to a man while kissing. Only through the satisfaction we get while kissing makes one gives a green signal to their mate.
Though kissing is considered as universal among human beings both men and women have altogether a different view on kissing. Women when kissed before, during and after sex as a way to get more close with their partners. But men considered that a less way of bonding and consider that a way of initiating sex.
Considering the fact that kissing helps us to find out a quality partner. When the faces are close and the tongues exchange biological information about whether the people will make a strong relationship. Women subconsciously prefer the scent of men whose genes are different from their own. Often people are satisfied with the fact that when human kiss it gives a good feeling. The tongues and lips are packed with nerve endings which intensifies the sensations of being in love when the mouth is pressed to the other. Kiss is the hunger for the need to touch someone else, which is natural as a food and water.