Couples should not limit kissing merely to times like making out, or as the conclusion to a date or a prelude to something more. Kissing your lover should be an everyday affair, an expression of your love for her. You should not use every kissing session as a prelude to sex.
Good and Bad Kissing
If you are a bad kisser, what a woman will never, ever say to you she was going to have sex with you until just that moment. This is one of the ways in which men and women differ. If a man is very attracted to a woman but discovers she’s a bad kisser and if he is presented with the opportunity, he’ll probably have sex with her anyway. A woman can’t get past a bad kiss. After all, if he hasn’t mastered kissing and fails to see its sensual possibilities, what hope is there for, ahem, anything else?
The secret to being a great kisser is to keep it simple and sexy. Forget about impressing her with that Casanovian kiss. Instead, indulge yourself in a simple, sexy and intimate kiss. Rid your mind of any kissing performance thoughts, and instead, realize that she’s opening the door to her soul and body. Enjoy the moment!
- You could ask him/her to kiss you, but that takes a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading his mind. Here are some ways. He could have worked on the science project with someone else, but he asked you.
- He could have called somebody else to chat about the English assignment, but he called you.
- He could have sat anywhere in the cafeteria, but he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out with you.
And what about when you’re with him. Does he sit close to you? Does he smile and look happy when you’re together? These are all signs that he likes you and might want to kiss you.
Dos and Don’ts for Kissing
- Don’t drool all over her mouth while kissing. Women don’t like wet or sloppy kisses.
- Don’t keep your lips stiff and rigid. You’ve got to keep your lips soft and sensuous. She needs to be able to feel your lips.
- Don’t keep your lips closed. Open your lips! Women don’t enjoy kissing just a slit on a guys face.
If you don’t know how to kiss properly, try to practice on the back of your hand. Pretend that you are kissing a hot & sexy beautiful woman that you’re dying to become intimate with. You could also practice kissing yourself on the mirror. In short, if you really want to succeed with single women in the love and romance department, you must be a good kisser.
When Should I Kiss?
A great kiss should always be when you’re alone with her. A movie theatre is a good place because it’s dark and people won’t be paying attention. Try to sit near the back, though, for privacy. But I do believe that a first kiss should be the good-bye kiss. When you’re dropping her off at her place or saying good-bye from seeing one another until the next time, ask her if it’s okay if you kiss her. It’s not childish or geeky to ask a woman that. It’s respectful and kind.
Bear in mind the hands should not be used to prevent the woman from going anywhere or to clamp her head into one uncomfortable position. Remember most women like men to toy gently with their hair. After decades of bad press about sticky hairsprays and helmet hair, most of us have been using products to enhance “touch ability” and are favoring hairstyles that look good a bit tousled. So go ahead and touch hair. And quit using all that sticky hairspray and goo so we can go back to touching yours.
Keep in mind that using your tongue is not required for kissing… if you are not experienced, save the French kissing (kissing using your tongue) for later. Lots of the greatest kisses are all about the lips. When you are comfortable kissing your partner, experiment with different ways to taste and nuzzle his lips. Caress his lips by brushing your lips back and forth against them, lick the outside corners of his mouth, and try using different pressures and movements to gently explore your partner’s lips. Notice how good his lips feel against yours, and try different things to make them feel even better!