For you guys, it is not always easy and can even be irritating when you find that things are going a bit differently than what you expected, especially when it comes to kissing. You might even think that you don´t need any so called ” kiss tips”. Most guys are educated to think that they should be in control of things especially in the kissing domain. If your partner is giving you the hint that you are not as sexually attractive as you once were, it could be that you have negleted your kissing techniques.
Dont forget kissing is normally not as important to you as it is for women. You can really improve and spice up your relationship if you keep just a few tips in mind. These simple tips will give you ways to transfer your kissing habits into a more fulfilling experience and hopefully will give you a more satisfying relationship.
- The first tip is to stop trying to take control of the situation, take it easy by trying to tune into your partner. By taking this plan of action, you will probably trigger a surprised reaction from your partner who probably wonder what is going on – this is not so bad because an element of surprise will get you out of your usual kissing habits.
- The second tip is to be aware of each movement you make and to take it slowly. Be more playful and teasing – be careful not to rush in. Start by touching and stroking areas that you do not normally stroke – if you are more of a bottom and leg stroker, try to stroke the arms and breasts and visa versa.Body language is the beginning of a good kiss, you can look at it as a good preparation for the kiss. It normally goes without saying that most things that are prepared well go well.
- The third tip is to control yourself, not the situation. It is important to let things flow and develop naturally but you can try to be a bit less forceful and more passive – this create more tension for your patner and they will be begging for more! By doing this you give your partner the a new feeling of control. It could be then that she starts to open up and show her true desires – she feels then that she can let go without you taking over. Try also to stop yourself from going to the obvious direct areas first – stroke around and be more tentative in your movements. You will be respected and even more desired if you dont rush in – ok passion is passion and you may be saying that it is difficult to do when you are really turned on. Just keep it in mind that women dont always want to go all the way just because you are heavily kissing.
Patience is what is required if you really want to be desired – create suspense! By following the kiss tips that I have given and playing the game patiently, you develop a high level of trust and curiousity in your partner. Your emotional and physical love life will be likely to turn into a new experience.
Of course it is not only about kissing well, a good relationship or encounter is about seduction.